Tuesday, 19 March 2013

Be patient with your husband – beautiful advice




The Muslim woman is tolerant and forgiving, overlooking any errors on the part of her husband.

She does not bear a grudge against him for such errors or remind him about them every so often.

There is no quality that will endear her to her husband like the quality of tolerance and forgiveness, and there is nothing that will turn her husband against her like resentment, counting faults and reminding him about his mistakes.

The Muslim woman who is following the guidance of Islam obeys the command of Allah (subhanahu wa ta’ala) :
. . Let them forgive and overlook, do you not wish that Allah should forgive you? . . . (Qur’an 24:22)

Love him …when he “forgets” that special occasion. For him every moment with you is special so he does not need an occasion.
Love him…when he comes late from the Musjid. He wants to make sure he is early with you in Jannah (Paradise).
Love him…when he admonishes you to don the hijaab. He wants to be sure you enshrouded by Allah’s Mercy when you leave the home.
Love him…when he is jealous. Out of… all the women he could have, he choose you to be his wife
Love him…when he is working till late. At least he comes home and you still get to sleep and wake up in his loving and caring arms.
Love him…when he has annoying little habits that drives you nuts. You have them too
Love him…when does not praise your cooking. He told you as newlyweds that yours was indeed always the best.
Love him…when he looks dishevelled. He was more busy caring for the family than grooming himself. By the way he is cute.
Love him…when he does not help in the home. He is out earning a halaal (pure) income for the family.
Love him…when he does not

No comments:

Post a Comment